Pubes or no pubes, that is the question…

Pubes or no pubes, that is the question...

I recently came across an article in The Guardian called “The Naked Truth” taking a strong stance against pubic hair removal.

The author Bidisha wrote:

“Women can now expose their pipi to the breeze from now until the day they die. Great. Why would they want to? If porn told you to jump off a cliff, would you do that too? At least now we can confront the naked truth about women’s submissiveness in all its stark, raw, bald reality.”

While it is true that nowadays in porn most performers (female and male) are shaved, I think it is taking it a bit far making out that all shaved, waxed or plucked women blindly follow what porn dictates. It is the kind of patronising feminism I despise – making out that whatever women do, they just do to please men. It is the kind of feminism that claims that most women do not think for themselves but are sheep who conform to fashion trends or male desires without thinking. It also claims that women could not possibly, ever, in a million years CHOOSE to have no pubic hair. The author continues her judgemental rant:

“Will a woman really do everything she can to meet every passing fad, even if it’s uncomfortable, time-consuming, irritating, expensive, troubling, humiliating? And look at the reward: intercourse with a porn-adoring male who actually loathes women’s real, naked, hairy bodies”

Woah – hold on: who says that getting rid of your pubic hair is “uncomfortable, time-consuming, irritating, expensive, troubling, humiliating” ? I have not had pubic hair for over two decades now. I shave every couple of days in the shower (takes less than a minute, so no big deal) because I swim and exercise a lot and hate nothing more than pubes being caught in some tight spandex. It costs me nothing to de-pube, does not “irritate” me and certainly is not “humiliating”. As for my partner – he loved what he called “a full bush” before we got together but is now used to the smoothness of my pussy.

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He certainly is not as Bidisha suggests: “A man who likes a woman without pubic hair despises adult women so much that he wants us to resemble children.” And does not “…stay at home instead in front of a computer, masturbating alone to the hair-free images he reveres.”

Instead he is using a clipper to keep his body hair short and shaves his balls for ME as I complained about pubes being stuck between my teeth when I go down on him.

I think everyone should choose if they want to have pubes or not. Whatever makes you happiest. I am certainly flexible during my film shoots on what hairstyle the performers wear down south.

I never see my performers naked before the shoot. I prefer it if the guys keep their pubes on their balls short so you see more of the cock and so that the girls don’t get a mouthful of them. But I would not dream of dictating to the performers in my films to shave or wax completely. So you see a mixture of pubic hair styles in my films. Some are shaved (because those performers prefer it that way) and some are more natural and bushy and some others are in-between. It is all about your personal taste.

In fact, 70’s-style porn where wild and bushy pubes flourish is experiencing a new revival. I am all for variety. It is all about choice: The pressure to let it all grow out is just as bad as the pressure to shave.

Pubes or no pubes? YOU decide.

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